Just my personal definition. Yes I still want things to be a certain way, and I can work and pray for that. But I say this a lot when things “aren’t right” - God is in his holy temple. God is on his heavenly throne. This I know, God is for me. “In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.” - Psalm 4 If you’re willing to focus less on your spouse and more on your own growth, you could follow me here as I try to do that, too. And you’d probably like the